All’s fair in love and war

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Used to describe a situation in which people do not follow the usual rules of behavior and do things that are normally considered unfair.

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The first known example of the proverb I know of is in the English writer and courtier John Lyly’s romantic novel Euphues, the Anatomy of Wyt, 1578: Anye impietie may lawfully be committed in love, which is lawlesse.